Monday, April 04, 2005
Changes, evolution and revolution!
Itz the rule of thumb that women is somehow, rather, macam, women always come after the man.
AKu tak nak cakap ajer, nanti takot tersinggung perasaan pihak2 tertentu..makan dalam karang, itu yg susah kot.
Anw, team merah, ive discussed with Salman the possibility of a match with FC Jatuh on the 3rd Sat of June.( Check korang nya calendar!) Dont worry, by then ill be a proud army man who have gone through the rigors of military life that includes eating spiders, talking to caterpillars and sleeping with snakes. AKu POP mid June ah..so ill be free by then..ANw, juz a reminder, to those of you who knew Raja!, my ex Geylang mate, yg laju gila, shooting mampat..his part of FC Jatuh, and i muz say an integral part. Im planning this way ahead, like 2 months before, becos we need to settle a lot of stuffs. This aint a rumour, itz a fact. ITz not NATO..(no action talk only)!!
THe stuffs that need to be settled includes the buying of a new top for the team, Baju merah kita nak bakar ah..hahahz, teros buang dalam laut. Laut India ke, hahahaz...Ok2, on a more serious note, i hope u can fork out 25 bucks each for just a top with a number at the back. No shorts, no socks whatsoever. Itz juz a top. We are still in premature stages in settling of the top but we need a majority vote. MESYUARAT AGONG ke online?? Well, ham is considering to get umbro, me n ismael thought of getting the Nike white/orange jersey we fall in love with at penin atas sekali..Bt i aimed to get the top b4 the match ah..kalau korang nak tukar nombor, cepat2 chop sekarang...hahaz..hamlau nak 8, sapek nak 18, me with my traditional 17...Anw, if FC Jatuh cannot make it, then we seek other teams lah to have a match with...
Oh, this is my 100 Rupiah worth of thoughts on parenting.
Parenting is the act of or to be a parent. Personally, i have no points to elaborate on this topic because im yet to be a called a father..Cheh, itu tak lama tu!! so any points written here is extremely superficial and debatable by any means!
For one, the Chinese is the one race that i look up when it comes to educating children. This is simply because the Chinese are one of the most succesful race in this World and they need to prolong that legacy so that their race is not fooled or being taken advantage of in order for other to be benefactors of their work!
Let me check its history of success!
-Great Wall of China
-Mao De Zong Long March that inspired the communist movement( about 7800km of walk--Melayu mana nak jalan ni jauh)
-Cultural revolution led by Mao himself that shaped and define the modern Communist Chinese Actually, its cocoon of success includes a list of contributions to the world but i shall leave it to all of u to research on that. Hahahahz...
im stuck actually. Sheesh, tak tahu apa nak tulis. If u read amz blogs, itz about her aspirations and thoughts of being a parent. Bt mine is rather the opposite. I based it on observations and the most of it come from my parents lah! hahz..Ok, their way of educating me is kind of simple,
they give me extreme liberty, that every time i ran myself into a mistake, itz time for them to intervene. Mistakes are not allowed to repeat twice. Learn from it but the idea here is to make mistakes so you can learn from it, to shape you to be a better person.
my mom: biarkan lah, nanti dia rasa baru tahu!
In fact, being the 2nd child, im quite independant actually. Cheh, bt my parents will always intervene lah at times but quite frequently i suppose. They need to noe who i mixed with, spends time with, talks on the phone with, play soccer with, macam2 lah...Bt im not deprived of freedom lah..hahahhz
My father: Muhammad Khidhir, tadi keluar ngan siapa? Sekolah mana? Pergi mana? Makan kat mana? If i went out with the opposite sex, the questions would be much more. Tu yg pawau sikit.
Im against the idea of parents grounding their child, setting rules of what time to come back(kalau anak dara maghrib kena balik i understand lah, kumbang2 malam kan banyak) Itz a thought actually, and i gez itz juz me. Im not sure how to elaborate on those who have been grounded and is currently on grounding situation?? Are u deprived? Stressd? Depressed? 5 days of school and you are not rewarded at the end of it? Sheesh, that's snobbish i suppose. Itz juz defeat the purpose of learning then.
Or isit then that such children failed to instill a sense of importance when it comes to studies? Main 24 jam and lupa daratan semua! No time management till the parents have to take the stern action of forcing them to stay at home 24 7? Or asyik ingat matair ajer, and lupa dunia? Pelajaran terbengkalai, ilmu ugama tak fasih and satu benda haram pon dah lupa! Isit? Live in ur fantasy world with ur bf/gf and tak ingat mak bapaK, as if the world is the bf/gf? Or isit dah tahu keturunan Melayu yg dasar memang pemalas, bengap bodoh,(sorry) so tak kisah ah...Boleh ikut kawan aper, gi Poly or JC or ITE then fail sama2...Tak kisah dengan kehidupan..
Cukup dengan apa yg ada?? Hidop lepak, motor minah rokok yg penting? Studies is secondary? Sheesh..Inilah anak melayu sekarang, nasib baik mak bapak dorang sayang dorang.
Abih u asyik nak ajer..I penat tau...
